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Is Confidence Worth the Fight to Keep Shining?

Are you feeling overwhelmed or doubt that you can do any of the tasks in your life effectively? Are you questioning your abilities and believing that you can’t be successful? You might be feeling like a failure because of this. It’s easy to get so low that you start believing that there is no way out, and you’re just destined to be nothing but a failure. You don’t believe you are the best person for the task, or even worse, that what you have to offer isn’t good enough. Don’t let this for your confidence; overcome it instead!

Show self confidence
Believe in yourself

One of the most difficult things you’ll have to deal with or the most valuable things you’ll have to learn is self-confidence. Of course, you will be told that it’s an important attribute and hold yourself as a role model for others. But sometimes, a lack of confidence can lead to bad habits or even mental health problems. This blog post will teach some ways in which you can keep your confidence high despite natural setbacks.

A Confession of Confidence

Always show confidence

I will admit, I’ve had a confidence problem my entire life. I was always sensitive to what people thought of me and how they perceived me. There was much struggle with a lack of confidence in all the classes I took in school, most notably in public speaking and academics. It prevented me from taking certain opportunities because I didn’t think I had the capabilities or energy to complete them. I was often in the position of demonstrating my lack of confidence and not doing so well.

I will be the first to admit that confidence has a huge impact on what you do. It’s positive and helps you do better, but through the years, I have realized that it’s the opposite. For example, when you’re confident, people will project and look down on you for being an underdog. Or if someone else is confident, then everyone else around them starts seeing themselves as weak or insecure.

Back in my high school days, I was the hardest working kid. However, I was flexible and willing to do anything. I was also very good at making friends and fitting in with people older than me. Even though I had a lot of trouble with academics, I knew that this fact would hold me back from getting into a good college, so I committed myself to a rigorous routine of studying and found ways around my insecurity of public speaking.

Low profile

I was always trying to keep my profile low since I had trouble in school and struggled in all the classes requiring reading and writing. Being the primary source of all my work and giving presentations forced me to be confident when speaking. I had overcome this problem in multiple ways, but I started settling into a pattern after a while. I would never give my presentation at school because I’d always start thinking about what would happen if it failed or people laughed at me, which would cause me to shut down completely. In the end, I would only give a presentation to the teacher during class, which I knew had no real purpose. Instead of using that time to take notes and learn more, I would just sit there and avoid speaking.

I was always in competition with my friends. They were the football players who played multiple sports and learned how to do everything well. The girls in my class were always wearing the latest trends that had been popular in fashion magazines since they came out and were all confident about how much better they were than me. I felt like they were the heroes of their own stories, and I couldn’t share in their confidence.

During many of my relationships, I’ve been in a place where my partner was confident. I would be quiet or timid because I wasn’t used to that kind of confidence. It can be hurtful to be around someone who seems better than you on every level, but you can never hope to reach there. It’s just not possible over a lifetime of hard work and being raised to believe what they say is the truth.

Gather Your Confidence

Start by reminding yourself of your successes in life. Instead of feeling like a failure, focus on all of the times you were successful in something before. For example, you could take on difficult tasks and meet deadlines without problems. When you do this, it will make the people around you feel that you can handle the tasks in your life. Of course, this doesn’t mean that they will always be on your side. You still need to prove yourself, but showing them evidence of your ability is a great way of changing how they look at you.

See the possible in everything

You need the confidence to take control of your life and live it the way you want. Confidence is important to handle whatever comes your way without having a problem. Stop doubting yourself, and you will overcome this hurdle.

It is okay

Confidence is not something that you are born with, it is something that you build. It is not just about how you feel, but also about how others see you. You can be the most confident person in the world, but if nobody sees it, then what’s the point?

The first step to building your confidence is to recognize where your confidence is lacking. The second step would be to take some time for yourself and ask yourself why your lack of confidence. Once you’ve identified the cause of your lack of confidence, start working on ways to fix it.

To change your outlook on life and learning to overcome this problem is by telling yourself that it will be okay. It’s not easy, but you can do it. You might have trouble keeping that faith, particularly when you’re feeling overwhelmed. However, your life will get better once you learn how to handle all of the situations that come up.

You can overcome this problem by realizing that the bigger you are, the more the world will be willing to give you all the tools you need to achieve your goals. You should believe in yourself, and having confidence will help make all of your dreams come true.

This is a very frightening thing when you are going through it. You might also have a lot of negative things happening in your life, which could be making it even harder. You need to realize that you’re the only one who can get through this and make it through this. People will try to put their own wants and needs over yours and make you feel like you don’t deserve the success you desire. It’s important not to listen to them because they try to keep you down.

Learn and unlearn

Everyone, you included, has a past where they have done things that aren’t very nice. But don’t let this be enough to stop you from moving forward in life. You need to learn from your mistakes and move on. Those people in your life who just can’t let you move forward will be left behind, so don’t let them pull you down with them.

Life is about change and growth, both of which are challenging for anyone going through. So be sure to take the time you need to get better and make sure that you’re doing everything in your power to overcome this situation. You need to overcome this problem, or it will keep holding you back in life.

Hope is the way to go

It’s not easy to get through these challenges, but you will feel better about yourself and your life once you do. So you need to take the risk and push forward with your life. Overcoming this problem will change your outlook forever and make it so that you’re never the same.

You might have to do some things that you don’t want to, but they will be good for you in the long run. So don’t let that stop you from doing what’s necessary.

Final say

You need to gather your confidence and get rid of the doubt in your life. Once you do this, you will feel much better about yourself and believe that anything is possible for you. It’s important to know yourself and remember your successes to learn how to overcome this problem. Don’t let others bring you down; instead, make them see that you are a strong person who can handle anything!

It’s a challenge to admit that you’re lacking confidence, but it’s a step in the right direction to fix it. If you’re confident, then good for you, but it doesn’t matter if you are or aren’t. It’s like being smart or funny because either of them will make you more popular or stronger than someone else who lacks those specific traits. In the end, confidence is gained by knowing how to deal with certain times of struggle and adversity.

Alphayo Sandehttps://www.shiftingnews.com
Alphayo Sande is an IT practitioner having attained a degree in Computer Science. He is also a non-fiction freelance writer specializing in different sections as an article and book writer. He writes for several online publications and has been published several times. Any day now, he gets his big breakthrough into the fast-paced world of being a writer, and his first job is to go to the end of the world and investigate strange occurrences. Alpha Sande is a trans human who can transform into any form he wants. He looks like any other human you would see on a billboard. He has a well-defined cheekbone structure, an androgynous face, and a piercing gaze. He is one of the new batch of freelancers whose job it is to report events across the known universe to the rest of us. While it is not as glamorous as it sounds, with little playtime, long, arduous assignments, and being widely derided by the literary establishment, it is his dream job.


  1. I love you brother keep doing what you are doing. The sky is nolonge the limit for. God is looking down on your hardwork. Keep shining


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